Fighting Better (3): Working with Oneness

Attempts to resolve conflicts most often fail because the participants are coming to the process with a two-ness instead of a oneness perspective. A conflict comes up when two parties… – want a limited resource, – don’t want an  unpleasant thing,...

Fighting Better (2): Working with Oneness

Jesus told the story of two brothers locked in conflict. The younger was a narcissistic idiot; the older a dedicated contributor to the family business. The younger took his share of the family’s resources, wasted it on wild living, and came back for more. When he...

Fighting Better (1): Working with Oneness

Some of you who follow this blog live here in Raleigh and are part of the NRCC community. For you, for eight Wednesday evenings this summer, we’ll be revisiting conflict resolution. It’s one of the more enjoyable things we do together. We learn together, we laugh at...

Fighting Better (1): Working with Oneness

Some of you who follow this blog live here in Raleigh and are part of the NRCC community. For you, for eight Wednesday evenings this summer, we’ll be revisiting conflict resolution. It’s one of the more enjoyable things we do together. We learn together, we laugh at...

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Friends: The spiritual community I lead is growing rapidly. It is really important to us to keep the relational integrity of our community, and not deteriorate into an overly organized institution. This requires a lot of work. Fortunately, we have a wonderful team of...